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I started the year with a memoir by one of my favorite celebrity chefs, Be Ready When the Luck Happens by Ina Garten. I watched Ina’s show for years and love her recipes for being reliable and delicious. It was interesting to hear how she became The Barefoot Contessa and that she seems to have been in the right place at the right time throughout her adult life. She did have many advantages so not completely rags to riches. I love her authenticity, work ethic (trying recipes over and over to ensure consistency) and general happiness. She doesn’t take herself too seriously and is grounded enough to determine the difference between what is and isn’t important. This was on everyone’s reading list as soon as it came out, but I finally decided to read it as part of Sharon McMahon’s book club (of Sharon Says So IG fame).
Next was Banyan Moon by Thao Thai. This is about three generations of women: Minh, her daughter Huong and her granddaughter Ann Tran. Minh immigrated to the U.S. after the Vietnam War, seeking a better life for her two young children. But she harbors a secret. Huong worked hard to give her daughter a good life, but her mother Minh and daughter Ann have a close relationship that she resents. Ann is at a crossroads in her life. Minh's sudden death brings them all together in a home that has its own secrets.
The Honey-Don't List by Christina Lauren was predictable but cute. What if popular "it" designers (think Chip & Joanna Gaines) were not happily married and one of their assistants was actually doing all the work?
Margo’s Got Money Troubles by Rufus Thorpe is my favorite so far this year. Margo is a very bright young woman with sketchy parents, three roommates and a new baby. She has to find a way to make ends meet since her baby daddy, her English professor, has ghosted her and she’s been fired from her waitress job for lack of childcare. Enter ingenuity, Only Fans, and wrestling. Funny, smart and thought proving, this really challenged me to stretch my ideas of how someone else's unconventional choices aren't bad even if they don't fit with what my idea of good choices looks like.
Here Be Dragons by Melanie Shankle. I read Melanie’s blog back in the day as well as one of her first books on friendship. In Dragons, she shares that her mother was her first bully. Oof. Very insightful regarding generational trauma and the journey to healing through boundaries. Loved all the references to growing up in the 70s and 80s and friends that fill our voids 💗
I just started Challenger by Adam Higginbotham (Sharon Says So book club) about the space shuttle disaster.